how are we judge ourself?
by the perspective of others or by our own evaluation?
well
since im getting married in couple of months *cue fireworks,marching bands,release those doves and throw the petals* **well kinda being self-absorbed this past few months sorry friends,**
i always get those comments like
"you getting married? owh are you like old enough for that?"
suck that up bitchie people im 24 this year~
might looks like 14 but yeah im 24
Thats the thing
i might acted like a giddy 15 years old gurl who thought Lady Gaga is a royal princess
but i think im matured enough to handle marriage life
people always referred me as the immature one
but honestly?
even when you are like 65, you will still have the craving to play swings with your grandchildren
If you are like TOTAL MATURE PERSON
you wont do any of those things
Thats where the terms YOUNG AT HEART comes
Just because i dress like a young adult,
Talk like a rejected cheer leader
It doesnt mean that i dunno how to handle myself
Like all the fruits and vegetables in the world
YOU CANT BE TOTAL MATURE or over ripe
because
if you goes over ripe
you'll be wilt or in malay LAYU
gone, ignored and cause food poisoning if been eaten
honestly do you wanna be like that?
So
If i said i wanna get married, *my parents beyond the approval, who else is paying for catering? do'oh*
ziplock you pretty little lips, erase your memory, stop the triggering urge to say
IM TOO YOUNG,IMMATURE TO HANDLE IT
Life works is very puzzling ways
Allah swt wants HIS servant to taste every peaks of love,happiness,hardship,bitterness
soo keep your opinion to yourself, unless you are paying for the wedding or the dowry
if not.. zip lock n wish me congratulation !
